Have you ever needed to close a door to know you were done in a room? Or turn off a song to know it was the end of it? We frequently use the adage, "Actions speak louder than words", so why do you need closure in a relationship when it's been declared that it's over through actions?
In the context of relationships, closure refers to the process of resolving unfinished emotions and finding a sense of resolution after a relationship ends, especially a romantic one. It involves reaching a state of acceptance and understanding that the relationship has ended, allowing both parties to move forward emotionally. Closure can be important for healing and moving on, as it provides an opportunity to make sense of what happened and find peace.
Your significant other was a habitual cheater. Do you need ask where you went wrong when you know you never cheated? When you’re in search of closure you have to be sure of the type of individual you were dating. The main quality would that has to be possessed to get the closure you’re seeking is accountability. It's hard to believe that someone who didn't take your feelings into account before cheating would now be accountable for cheating and how that made you feel. Without accountability you're beating a dead horse because they won't ever admit what they did wrong and how that hurt you.
Closure leaves a crack in the door for later entry and in order to keep the peace you've earned there should be no spinning the block. Do the inside work. Don't depend on the closure to make you whole again.
Books don’t always end they way you thought they would and the same is of relationship and most times the sequel sucks.
